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It's Sunday every where today as I'm writing this. In some places it's just as sunny as it is here in my city. For others of you, it's storming. No matter what the weather is outside, YOU can set the mood of your weather by doing this:
With or without the kids. With or without a back yard, here's what you can do today to have some REAL fun.
WITHOUT THE KIDS IDEAS
SUNNY DAY - If it's sunny outside try these ideas
If you have no kids or if you have a day without the kids, get some washable markers, lay outside is as little clothing as you can get away with without getting arrested (unless you're into that sort of thing) Sip on margaritas, play and draw on each other.
Chances are this will get way past PG 13 and R rated territory, BUT the build up makes it all the more exciting. Some guys say, "Well if it's gonna get past R rated, let's just take it there without all the preliminaries" *I'm giving you the side eye look right now* Because if you wonder why your woman is less than thrilled to have play time with you, it's because you don't enjoy making it creative. You want her to make it awesome for you? Then make it awesome for her.
Fix those margaritas, go sit outside, and draw and kiss your way to heaven at home.
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RAINY DAY - You guys can't use the markers unless you wanna look like runny messes of ink. But you can still strip down since most likely the rain isn't making it too cold for swimwear anyway.
So get into as little clothing as you can comfortably risk in your backyard or home, and play a game of TOUCH football. Don't have a foot ball??? Make one out of rolled up tshirts!!!
Remember how playfighting and lightly pushing was the way to flirt for many years? Some couples stop that playfulness once they get comfortable. This activity is a sure way to get the playfulness back and to REAP THE REWARDS in major ways.
DON'T HAVE A BACK YARD? Well just wear tshirts and shorts, and head out to the park on a blanket. Once things get "heated" in an emotionally fun way, just rush back home for the "after party."
IF YOU'VE GOT THE KIDS TODAY, HERE'S THE FIX
Do the Sunny Day idea in the comfort of whatever area you can get away with it without intrusion of the little ones. If they are really small, get them in front of a movie with all the snacks they could ever want, and enjoy this time with just the 2 of you for a change.
It's NOT wrong at all to come back to center and re-energize your relationship. After all, YOU TWO are the CENTER of this family, and the kids are the branches. If the core isn't healthy, how can the branches be?
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.