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Aron's Study: Aron Suggested that ANYONE could fall in love with ANYONE if they built intimacy through the study he created. First, the people have to ask and answer all 36 of the questions below. During the study, this typically took 90 minutes, but if it takes longer that is not an issue. The rule is that it MUST be done in one sitting, not across several.
After answering the questions, the couple must look into each other's eyes for 4 minutes.
According to the study, the level of intimacy this process takes can cause anyone to fall in love. WHAT DO YOU DO AFTER? Well, that's where "Modern Traditional Lady" is helpful. My book gives you ALL the info you need to set a SOLID FOUNDATION right from the beginning, and how to keep your relationship DRAMA FREE long term.
Have fun with this exercise, and be sure to GET your copy of my book asap.
Love wisely, ladies & gentlemen.
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Updated, Feb. 13, 2015 | Author: Mandy Len Catron of The New York Times
TITLE: To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This
Original Link is available at the bottom of this blog entry.
The 36 QUESTIONS are available by clicking HERE
More than 20 years ago, the psychologist Arthur Aron succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory. Last summer, I applied his technique in my own life, which is how I found myself standing on a bridge at midnight, staring into a man’s eyes for exactly four minutes.
Let me explain. Earlier in the evening, that man had said: “I suspect, given a few commonalities, you could fall in love with anyone. If so, how do you choose someone?”
He was a university acquaintance I occasionally ran into at the climbing gym and had thought, “What if?” I had gotten a glimpse into his days on Instagram. But this was the first time we had hung out one-on-one.
“Actually, psychologists have tried making people fall in love,” I said, remembering Dr. Aron’s study. “It’s fascinating. I’ve always wanted to try it.”
I first read about the study when I was in the midst of a breakup. Each time I thought of leaving, my heart overruled my brain. I felt stuck. So, like a good academic, I turned to science, hoping there was a way to love smarter.
I explained the study to my university acquaintance. A heterosexual man and woman enter the lab through separate doors. They sit face to face and answer a series of increasingly personal questions. Then they stare silently into each other’s eyes for four minutes. The most tantalizing detail: Six months later, two participants were married. They invited the entire lab to the ceremony.
“Let’s try it,” he said.
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men prefer higher pitched voices usually, and women tend to desire men with deeper voices.
BUT IS THE SCIENCE ACCURATE?
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OR THE WAY YOUR ACTIONS MAKE YOUR PARTNER
Here's an interesting video on INITIAL attraction,
BUT after you watch, I want you to answer THIS QUESTION:
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Stop complaining about a holiday that is called a "celebration of love." Yes, commercialism is present, just like it is in most holidays.
Simply because companies do what companies do: try to make MONEY.
I have a question for you though: Who controls you?
Last time I checked, you can do what you want with your money and time (outside of work obligations and necessary expenses.)
SO MAKE VALENTINE'S DAY YOUR OWN THING !
So... How do you do that exactly?
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Committed fellas, Single men, and the "Somewhere in between," here's my tips to each of you as we RAPIDLY approach Valentine's Day.
Step 1: Do not hate on the holiday to a woman, even if she claims to be tired of it. Why? If she says she's over it, SHE'S LYING! She either thinks her aloof attitude will make her seem more attractive to you, or she's been wounded and is too angry for you to be trying to deal with anyway. On the off chance, that she is the .001% of women who genuinely have no fascination with the holiday, my tips WILL STILL WORK.
Valentine's Day is nothing more than a day to pay tribute to the institution of LOVE, not "how much money or how many balloons and flowers" can you send.
Step 2: If you are dealing with the type of woman who wants to compete for the "my man loves me the most award" by virtue of who ever gets the biggest delivery at her job... well... you may just have one of the types I describe in Chapter 1 "How to Know Crazy When You See Crazy."
Love does not and should not ever carry a price tag.
The amount of money invested in the gift should be less important than the time and thought put into it.
Any woman who values LOVE will agree.
Should you ever buy an extravagant gift? Sure! If your pockets can afford it, then yes. It's a gesture of pride and love in your lady, whether you buy her a diamond ring, bracelet, or an all expense paid trip to Jamaica.
BUT Valentine's Day does not have to be that day.
HERE'S WHAT YOU DO TO MAKE HER HAPPY ON ANY BUDGET:
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