I can hear you.
The"doubters" are saying "yea yea yea... more of that horoscope mess."
The believers are saying, "Yes. Tell em!"
But you're here already doubters... so just have some fun with me here.
This post is based on the astrology that originated in India BUT other systems, like the Chinese calendar and the Feng Shui based system are interesting too.
So back to it... Why care?
Most people I know are very similar to the description of their sign. I don't know how or why. I can't say if it's really the stars OR is it about the time of year we were born and how it affects us just like it does plants and animals.
Real talk: Did you know that plants and animals behave and develop differently based on when they were born or planted? We are natural beings as well so hey...
There might just be some science to this after all.
So what's the big deal when dating?
Why should you know your partners sign?
1. What do you want from me?
When you're into a person, you might think it's obvious to them, but it's not. Most of the signs flirt and show interest in VERY different ways. Leos are all flashy about it usually, while you might NEVER know if a Capricorn or Aquarius like you. Geminis flirt but since they're so talkative, other signs are never really sure when a Gem is flirting or just excitedly talking.
So if you're unsure about how someone feels about you, look their sign up. How do they usually communicate about romantic emotions?
2. Bish I know you did not just... (The Arguments)
Bruh if there is one thing that causes the most drama it's breakdowns in communication between signs. Let's look at Scorpios for a second. These men and women are blunt AF. For other blunt signs like Aquarius and Geminis, this is cool. But, for Pisces and Cancers, they might think Scorpio is mad at them or being rude and snap at them.
"Bish I know you did not."
On the other end of the spectrum, Caps and Aquas are not usually that verbally expressive, so if they're happy, they show in their actions. More expressive signs like Cancers and Tauruses think Caps and Aquas are disloyal and neglectful as lovers. Meanwhile, Caps and Aquas think Cancers and Tauruses are too mushy and touchy.
You gotta know how your partner expresses affection and anger to avoid needless conflict and even to avoid the gentle way couples part... the silent pull-away because they think there's a problem when there really isn't.
3. The Sex
Of course I was gonna go there. You're grown. If not, you should not be following my page.
And I'm gonna give more detail here because how a person interacts sexually is also related to their approach to relationships, so it helps to apply this info to other areas of relationships too.
Every sign has its own view of sex and even its own reasons for sex. In other words, what you get from it could be very different from your partner.
Cancers, Tauruses and Virgos are all about the deep connection past the physical. It's not always deep emotion though. It's about a deep experience. Even in casual encounters, they like to get into nurturing touches and sensuality. For these signs, creating a variety of sensations is paramount, and they expect THE SAME IN RETURN.
Geminis are playful lovers and even sex is a social encounter with their partner. Aquarians and Sagittarians are playful lovers like Gems, so all 3 of these signs engage in sex as a shared activity that's fun for them and their partners, just like playing basketball or video games might be. But don't mistake their playful attitude for lack of emotion. When any of these 3 commit, they are all-in to their partner, so don't doubt their commitment to you just because sex is playtime for them.
Unless you have some solid evidence of cheating,then hey, do what you gotta do. That goes for all signs though.
Leos and Aries are the big sexual show-offs, so they appear playful, but they really want to be the best ever in life at everything, including sex. So get ready for some marathon sessions. Oh and definitely tell your Leo or Aries when you like something. Of all the signs, these 2 expect to be praised when it's good and it benefits you because they get even more excited about doing well with each Ooh Aah and sexy compliment.
Libras want to make sure everybody is equally pleased and are more prone to making the connection emotionally and physically balanced. (Their the scales of justice for a reason) So if you crave balance AND know how to give passion and excitement just as often as peace and dedication, this is the lover who will bring in all areas with full intent to please. If your lover is a Libra, don't forget to be sure you're giving as much as you are receiving or they'll start to feel neglected and unappreciated as a lover.
Capricorns can be intense, which means they really commit to each sexual act and encounter, not like relationship commitment, but more like, "I gotta do this right." But since Caps are such perfectionists, they have a hard time as lovers with the 3 playful signs. So if your lover is a Cap, let them know how good they're doing AND make sure they see how devoted you are to their pleasure in return.
Scorpios are often called the freaks of the zodiac. but I think that label doesn't really say it right. Yea they enjoy TF out of sex (pun intended) but they're not very vocally expressive so it's hard to know how good or bad the sex is for them. But they're action oriented, so they'll keep going and going til you say Stop. That's how they got their title.
Pisces are similar to Virgos but possibly more so into the emotional connection.Sex and love are highly interwoven for Pisces, so unless your Pisces is on a "casual IDGAF" phase, expect sex to mean more than just a physical thing. And it's easier to piss a Pisces and not realize you did it. They're the quintessential water sign and will just flow away and you might never know why.Or they might just flood you with passion. So get your scuba gear ready and if you like that emotional passion, dive in.
(If you feel like I got your sign wrong, leave a comment. I'm open to learning from experts of their own sign as well )
SO WHAT'S THE TAKE-AWAY HERE?
If you know how a person is likely to show interest how they communicate ideas and needs, and their approach to sex, you can walk into that dating situation like a boss. And both of you will be a hell of a lot happier for however long you choose to be together and in whatever capacity.
Salam. Om. Sabaali. Peace.
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.