In the battle to define
what is the
found a piece of serenity
inside his divinity
yes he is divine and i feel inclined
to submit to his sweetest intentions…
it is my mission to be taken by him…
I found a piece of passion
within every action
when we were matching
our wits like reflections
in a crystal clear mirror…
I found a match within…
somewhere behind the seduction in his grin…
there was passion in his hand
yes he is the archetype of man…
and I found adoration was his plan
to captivate me is his divine inclination
capturing my senses with delicate vibrations…
I stood before this graceful essence of masculine perfection
my fingertips tingling like sugar confections
drifted like sail boats riding the waves of his design
and it was my desire to make him mine…
I found a match within…
hidden inside the seduction of his grin…
there is passion in his hand…
You see he is the archetype of man
For some men it has become next to impossible to identify a woman with potential and readiness for a relationship:
Here are a few key points:
1. She moves through life in a way that you respect.
2. She takes pride in the composition of her appearance. This shows she has the confidence to present herself proudly to the world without the burden of doubt and jealousy. Of course most women will admit, as many men will that they have some discomfort with their body, but on the whole, a woman with a solid sense of self who is not easily swayed by the critique of others will express her style with comfort in that.
3. When in your presence, her business mode, or public mode should be switched off, and she should become affectionate and gentle. She sees you as a center of peace, as home base, and she provides the same to you.
Bonus Info: Listen for the sigh. If she sighs softly or deeply when laying in your arms, she knows how to submit. And not "submit" that gives up herself and obeys orders, but submit as in welcoming the presence and needs of her partner. She knows how to give and receive without keeping score or holding it against you.
Femininity is like a light in the dark. When you know what it looks like you can easily detect its presence.
At the beginning of a romantic encounter, there is so much brand new. It’s just like when you visit a brand new place. You are excited about the new sights and sounds. Your focus in entirely set on enjoying the “new-ness” that you may not notice whether or not the glasses behind the bar have been dusted, or when was the last time the electrical system has been inspected. Is anyone disinfecting that bathroom, or are they simply wiping off the visible dirt for “appearances?”
With a brief outing it’s not a huge disaster to be distracted by the surface level, because it’s just one night. However, when it comes to dating, it’s your precious time and emotions that are on the line.
In an effort to protect your time from waste, let’s consider what you SHOULD be noticing in your potential future partner.
Some of the traits that lead toward success in relationships are: consistency (with some honesty, and trust), maturity, and playfulness.
CONSISTENCY – Any traits that you perceive should be evident on a regular basis and without interruption. There are no excuses for something being intermittent. If there is a lapse or if there is a contradiction to the trait, it is evidence that this is not their true nature.
What does consistency prove? It proves if they are honest and trustworthy. If a person is truly honest, they won’t try to hide what and who they are from you. They will be comfortable in who they are and accept whether or not you are into them.
A person who is not honest and trustworthy will alter their image and try to distract you because their ego doesn’t allow them to enjoy who they are unless someone else is in love with them. That’s not safe for them or for you.
MATURITY – How do they react to inconvenience? If they are reacting with irate emotions or panic then this is a problem. However, if they maintain their composure and get something accomplished, you can trust that this is a habit. No one can fake this trait.
How do they scold and teach their children (if they have any?) Or how do they handle conflicts with strangers and with established contacts? Do they speak in a direct manner without demeaning the child or the adult in question? Are they consistent in the lessons they teach to them? Are they consistent in direct and respectful communication? On the other hand, if they have a whiny, begging tone when they scold, it means they are not the parent, the kid is in control. If they are dismissive of poor behavior, then they don’t care about who their child becomes, therefore they don’t care about who THEY become. If they gossip or lash out on the adult conflict, then they are sure to create drama throughout the remainder of their life as well. Do you really want to live your life with that?
These are things that can’t be faked. These are habits. If someone spills a drink on their sofa, they won’t have time to pretend to react appropriately. If they are hateful, they will slip and say “What the fuck you little dumbass?” or a balanced person will say “Go get a paper towel and clean that up. When you finish go sit in the corner. You know to be more careful.”
Or they may have even been proactive and insisted that the child sit at the table with a paper towel, thus preventing the entire situation to begin with.
PLAYFULNESS – In order to fully enjoy life and love, one has to have a playful nature. When people say the word “laid back” what they really mean is playful. Appreciating the good things, and not sweating the nonsense. A playful person has an ease about them, that allows them to have fun and be relaxed in almost any location.
At home they’re playing or enjoying the conversation. At the park they’ll smile warmly and take notice of the world around them. They might even get on the swings. The key ingredient to playfulness is ease in their movements and demeanor.
Someone who is faking this trait, will not be able to pretend to be comfortable with it. Mind their body language. If you notice tension or discomfort in their expression, they are not enjoying themselves.
Consistent maturity and playfulness is a sure indication that this is someone who you can trust with your everything and enjoy life with. People who pretend at being someone they’re not, tell on themselves in their body language, or in their contradictions. A person who says they love to cook won’t have dust sitting on some of their stored away pots and pans.
A person who says they exercise regularly will have workout clothing in the laundry and easily accessible in their dresser drawers. They won’t need to buy a new set.
People simply cannot hide themselves. So no matter how good they appear, no matter how good the sex was last night, don’t get so caught up in the moment that you fail to take notice of what lies at the foundation of this person.
Can you see what’s behind the wizard’s screen? The reality is somewhere behind the smoke, glitter, and theatrics. Get your archaeologist on and dig through the surface to see the foundation of who they are.
Take charge. Set the plans in motion. Invite her in.
If she’s not with it, she’s not ready for you or most men in general.
A great woman LOVES when a man has put a plan together for a date. It shows that he values her enough to treat her and make time and space for her. It shows that he is capable and willing to lead, and that she can sit back and enjoy being the nurtured and adored lady.
With a great woman, she will reward you. *wink* in multiple ways. She should show appreciation, and return the favor with some comfortable nurturing and later when the time is right, her sexual reciprocity will speak for itself.
Do not settle for less than that in a woman. If she takes and doesn't say "thank you" or some form of appreciation, just stop. She has the right to not feel grateful, but why would you continue to give to anyone who doesn't appreciate what you're giving?
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.