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So what does "Soul Sex" feel like?
It would be incredibly hard to describe because it's a kaleidoscopic type of feeling that brings together sensations that are: physical, emotional, mental, and perhaps more.
"Soul sex" is like mixing all possible flavors into one dish: The sweet, the spicy, the bitter, and the sour.
Why should you even try it out?
If you have to convince someone to be open to it, chances are they won't be able to go there.
"Soul Sex" can only happen if everyone involved is open to it. It requires your guards to be down and for you to give in totally to letting the feeling and sexual connection take over.
You should try it because it feels f***ing amazing and for couples who want to heal each other and empower each other through sex, THIS is how you do it.
Here's what the "bull shit talk" is
It's the dialogue that society has taught you: men only need to bust one as fast as possible, Your performance is based on how many times your partner cums, it's gotta be nasty to be good, He only wants the booty anyway, so don't worry about the rest.
Here's the problem:
this dialogue is not the truth of most sexual encounters. It's great to be nasty sometimes, and to see how many times you can make the other person climax. Great. But that's ALL PHYSICAL and doesn't make "Soul sex" more or less likely. You can still do all of that with soul sex IF you let it get there.
Be Open Mother F***er.
Rub on each other. Kiss on each other. Bond long before sex happens.
While you're grocery shopping, walking across a parking lot, eating at a restaurant, playing a sport at the park... etc. Touch, play, SEDUCE each other.
While Step 1 got the barriers down, Step 2 warmed up the engines.
It's all about the Play.
Here's the most common reason people never get "soul sex"
They rush to the climax.
Sex is like any activity or meal. If you rush through it, it's never as great as if you savored and sampled and INDULGED in every piece of the experience.
Slow down baby you're going too fast.
STOP AND EXPLORE.
Explore the way kisses and touches feel on each part of your body and his or hers.
Let the feeling linger. Pay attention to his or her reaction before moving on to another area.
Have sex while watching a movie or playing that board game I mentioned earlier.
Let the sex be a full part of your time together.
DO NOT RESERVE IT FOR "AFTER" Let it intertwine with your time together that whole day or evening.
And that's how it gets there.
Once that warmth is built up and the sex is more of a central connecting point, instead of just this "after thought at the end."
You connect much deeper and all that physical climax you get is AMPLIFIED as you both are empowered and released mentally and spiritually.
You become a center for connection and pleasure and renewed strength to bring forward into every part of life.
And DO NOT UNDER PLAY THE "AFTER PLAY"
Read under this mage for more on the "after play"
Pause, touch, lay there, caress each other.
The "after play" moves the energy of the climaxes and release all over the body through the nervous system.
Simply touches across each other's body will always move that flow of endorphins, adrenaline, and all the rest throughout your body.
Your touch is a SIGNAL to your body to move these things around. If you don't signal it, your body will hold that rush into one region only and that's why climax is usually not felt as powerfully by everyone as it should be.
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.