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Look at this text conversation in the attached photo. What kinda mess is this?
The "I'm gonna play nonchalant game" needs to be retired and now. Ladies, I too have been a victim of this.
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Now, let's talk about this. First, let's start with a few things to remember.
1. I hope no man over 30 is trying this, and no matter if you are 20, 40 or 60, realize this looks so bad on any man.
2. If you scared, say you scared.
First thing some men will say is, this man is just nervous because some women act interested but then won't go on a date. If that's what you're worried about say it. Be straight forward. But once she makes it clear that she's interested, ASK HER ON A DATE and stop playing this game.
3. Yes, this really happens more often than you'd think, and here's the thing to know, gentlemen: This DOES NOT WORK on most women, and even the few who might play this little game with you can't and won't be able to respect you as a man.
My personal experience:
Someone who was interested in me sent me similar text messages. The first few times he asked "when I was gonna go see him" or "when I was gonna have time for him" I said "When you ask me out on a date and make a plan."
Pretty straight forward right.
Only he continued to play the game. He'd say, "I still haven't seen you." or "Hey" and wait for me to reply to these dry ass comments. He regularly sent these messages a few times a week and the whole while, another man asked me out on a date, several dates, spent time with me, etc. And we started a relationship!
Meanwhile, I didn't notify the other one about anything, waiting to see how long he'd keep it up.
You can't get a relationship or even just sex with this.
He could have had the dates and the affection, all he had to do was UNDERSTAND the nature of women a little bit, not even a lot, just a little. We see this behavior as "little boy behavior." So if you are looking for quality, this won't work, and even if all you're needing is some booty, this still will not work.
No grown-ass woman wants to sync up physically or emotionally with a man who can't take the lead in the process.
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Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.