Does she hear praise from you as often as she hears about what you want to do to her body?
Let's be honest about something. The female form, especially the black and brown female form has been objectified to sell products, to create porn content, to be the sexual pleasure spot for the erotica of the minds of others.
Women have reacted in 2 ways to protect ourselves from being sexualized against our will. On the one hand, we create repression on ourselves and each other. Or on the other end of it, some women have embraced that path of sexualization to make money from.
But what about the desire to exist somewhere in the middle? to appreciate sex? to fall head first into full sexual indulgence and still be able to move freely without chastisement or judgement, without being limited to being seen and treated as that sexual figure at all times?
This is where many women exist for at least a few years in their sexual life. And thus they and their lovers can never fully appreciate the raw sexual passion and damn sure can't connect to each other during the physical act.
So gentlemen and not so gentle-dudes, here's what you can do about it:
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.