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There is such a fine line between the 2. And it's the rare man who understands the difference and knows how to choose and use the successful version of the 2.
I'd guess 50% of men will never attempt either, or will try a couple of times only to fail miserably and never try again. 25% of men will continue to use the negative strategy all their lives and spend life of either being a controlling asshole or an abusers or at the least perpetually single as one after the other woman refuses to deal with his behavior.
While the other 25% will know the power of "Telling a woman" what to do and reaping the rewards of a woman who feels protected and nurtured and genuinely loved. He gets ALL THE GOODS.
#1 Telling a woman "what to do" means you think it's your job to fix a woman or that without you this woman could not successfully "adult." And in the rare case, you may meet a woman who cannot manage the bills and tasks and is functionally an adolescent but recent statistics prove that the majority of women are capable of gaining education, acquiring decent jobs and managing homes
so... any man who enters a relationship and proceeds to enter a "dad" or "supervisor" role with their mate is basically f***ing up, to put it mildly.
#2 "Telling a woman" what to do... This is when a man is not reallly ordering her around or thinks his ways are so much better than hers. He very simply is her supportive partner and at times this means giving reminders, like "Bae did you get the oil changed in your car?" or "This weekend we're gonna clean out the garage before rats move in."
Leave me a comment about a time that you or your partner had to check the other. Did you guys do it right? or are yall still learning?
Oh and one more thing... if anybody gets disrespectful in the way the "check each other" remember the power of "My bad bae... I should not have said it that way" and keep it moving.
Salam. Ohm. Sabaali. Peace.
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.