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We have ALL seen at least one person who was a real low down using type or sociopathic type just messing over and/or using others for their own personal gain, while presenting the “I love you and I’m here for you” front.
The thing about these types is they often attack several targets along the way, leaving several jaded lovers with legit PTSD.
Here’s a couple of examples that I’ve witnessed. Yall tell me if you’ve witnessed similar.
This chick only dated men with a particular level of vehicle because as she said
it, “If he has money for that, then he can afford the lifestyle I want.” While I’m not in support of materialism, I had no issue with what she said AS LONG AS she was doing right by this man and valuing him as a person as well.
However, she was not. She was out to get as much as she could from every man she dealt with no matter how genuine of a person he was. She didn’t only target men who were just after her body. Noooooo. She also unleashed her gold-digger usary ways on great, marriable men.
Those she scarred were tricked into believing she really loved and wanted to BUILD WITH them, only to find out far too late that all she wanted was to get in close enough to leech all she could get from them.
This dude hopped from woman to woman but when he chose to remain with one for an extended period of time, he presented it like it was the deepest love he’d ever known and it’s possible he really believed it was. But what he was really in love with, was the rush of someone loving attentively on him.
And BIGGER THAN THAT: He wanted to be free to be totally irresponsible with money, to quit jobs every time he didn’t like something, and for the woman to never say anything about it.
So as soon as the new woman got close enough that they started talking about sharing a home and finances, he was out because every woman got upset about the dangers of his spending habits and job instability.
SADLY, I KNOW A FEW OTHER SITUATIONS like these 2 but let’s get to the point of this post.
The thing about these Trifling, Fake, No Good F***s is the following:
1 They don’t target each other but instead wreak havoc on decent people
2 They mess over several people causing all of these people to have PTSD in relationships because they are nervous with every new person, since they never know who might be like that Fake No Good F*** from their past.
Which is why I wrote the book “How to Make a Modern Woman Act Like a Traditional Lady.” My aim is to show men how to identify the No Good Women and how to identify a woman of worth that they can build with.
Don’t let the title scare you away, Ladies. It’s not at all about a return to the past loss of rights. Hell No. This book is about creating OUR VERSION of traditional so that we can build our lives with our men. But they need to know what we need in order to trust in them.
Also, you can tell a lot about a man as he reacts to the information in the book. A man who understands what I discuss in it, will know how to make you feel protected and empowered at the same time.
See it for yourself. Get a preview at the store tab above.
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.