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Every responsibility that you have, every goal and dream of yours is made easier and less stressful when you ALLOW your man to do something for you that he is actually VERY GOOD AT, even though they don't get credit for it nearly as often as they should.
MEN ARE EXCELLENT PEACE MAKERS (95% of them for sure)
Men are great at relieving stress by taking your mind off of it, so LET HIM. He can rub your feet, your shoulders, take you out, cook dinner, put the kids to bed for you etc.
OH I HEAR SOME OF YOU ALREADY. But what if he doesn't do that for me already. Let me ask you this:
Have you asked him?
and MORE IMPORTANTLY ... HOW have you asked?
There's this amazing trait that we as women have but FEW of us today know how to actually USE IT.
It's called "feminine grace." We've seen women on sitcoms, and in real life, scolding their man, berating even sometimes for not "doing more."
Here's a tip ladies: MOST MEN ARE PLEASERS BY NATURE.
They don't want to do anything to upset you, so whatever you suggest is what they will aim to do. BUT YOU NEED TO KNOW HOW TO SUGGEST IT.
Click "Read More" to see how.
Think back to the days when you were using "flirtation" in most communication with him. Remember how excited he was? Remember how when you said "Oh this is so heavy. Can you pick it up for me?" in that sweet tone of femininity and he just melted?
THAT'S the key to allowing your man to be your PEACE KEEPER. He needs to hear from you what you want, and he needs to hear it in an encouraging and sensually feminine manner.
Why does this work?
Men like to be NEEDED. They like knowing that what they do in the world is appreciated.
SO APPRECIATE THAT FACT and stop complaining like your man isn't willing to do for you.
He is willing, and so much so that he doesn't want to risk doing the wrong thing.
Let him know in a sweet manner all that you want him to do, and watch how your KING comes out to play in many, many ways.
Author: Jessica Bordelon
Passionate, powerful, & gentle, she is an artist that captures the strength , power & energy of femininity in its purest form.